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Generally favorable reviews - based on 26 Critic Reviews

Critic score distribution:
  1. Positive: 20 out of 26
  2. Negative: 1 out of 26
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  1. Jan 26, 2016
    100
    Not to Disappear is shattering throughout: a brooding sound board, crackling guitars, unsettling beats and Tonra buried in there somewhere, documenting unspeakable hurt, graphic and unfiltered.
  2. Jan 15, 2016
    100
    Not to Disappear is intentionally difficult to stomach. It finds a dark pit to nestle in and then digs deeper. But few acts could deliver these unceasingly grim details with such majesty.
  3. Jan 15, 2016
    90
    At no point does any of the growth feel forced. Daughter could have been forgiven for producing another album like their debut, but they took a brave step in embracing innovation. The beautiful Not to Disappear is their reward, and ours.
  4. Jan 19, 2016
    88
    Not to Disappear is everything you could want from a sophomore release. It’s got enough of the debut in it that you’re getting what you came for with a ton of surprises to make sure you keep going on this journey with them from here on out.
  5. Uncut
    Jan 29, 2016
    80
    Like their debut, Not To Disappear evokes bot the gauzy fragility of Cocteau Twins and the offbeat ingenuity of Kristin Hersh, though this time it cranks up the amps. [Mar 2016, p.72]
  6. Jan 22, 2016
    80
    It’s a subtle progression for the trio, the band honing their craft to produce a record that is equal parts compelling as it is isolating.
  7. Jan 20, 2016
    80
    Altogether, the record beautifully distills what it means to be human and to experience pain, but with far greater nuance and maturity than their debut.
  8. Jan 19, 2016
    80
    Daughter--and Tonra in particular--have elegantly lowered their defences with Not to Disappear. Emotional literacy and gripping theatricality lie behind the wall.
  9. Jan 19, 2016
    80
    Not to Disappear adds strong new strings to Daughter’s bow.
  10. Jan 19, 2016
    80
    Despite the dark emotions on display, Not To Disappear is the sort of album that can sound oddly comforting, one to which you can gaze out on a bleak and snowy landscape, while musing over January’s travails, and take some sort of solace in. That’s the sort of thing Daughter do so well.
  11. 80
    With Daughter's second album, she's more poignantly present than ever and her suffering is an emotional exorcism we can all find strength in.
  12. 80
    Not to Disappear is made as carefully and beautifully as you would expect--balancing the acts of remaining true and pushing forward. It does this with an air of self-assured calm and the clarity that a few extra years of being alive bring.
  13. Q Magazine
    Jan 12, 2016
    80
    If listening to this record feels like eavesdropping, however, what's overheard is emotional dynamite. [Feb 2016, p.109]
  14. Jan 12, 2016
    80
    It’s not so much sidestepped the perils of the second album as trampled them, taking the sound that won the band all those packed festival tents and driving it forward, matted and bloodied like Miles Teller at the end of Whiplash, no longer weeping and withdrawn but pulsing and alive. And it’s genuinely exciting to hear.
  15. Jan 20, 2016
    78
    Experience may be a cruel messenger, but Daughter’s success comes not from pulling away, but from embracing that. In doing so, Not to Disappear comes out the other side, not beaten and lost but vibrant and alive.
  16. Jan 15, 2016
    75
    In Daughter’s world, the distinction between ecstasy and agony isn’t always obvious; in fact, the two are often one and the same. It’s why Not To Disappear demands full attention, and what makes the album such a compelling listen.
  17. Jan 12, 2016
    75
    Not to Disappear builds on many of the same themes that dominated 2013’s If You Leave, but with an added layer of universality.
  18. Jan 12, 2016
    75
    Uplifted by a striking new force of sound from partners Igor Haefeli and Remi Aguilella, Tonra once again courageously emerges from the dark with something to impart, the voice for delicate souls pressing forward.
  19. Jan 15, 2016
    70
    Altogether elegant, moving, and often beautiful, Not to Disappear leaves Daughter, without question, on the heavier side of the emotional spectrum, but, like the Cure's "Dark Trilogy" 35 years prior, is sure to connect deeply with some listeners and stand out not only among pop contemporaries but among other emotive, textured indie pop.
  20. Jan 19, 2016
    67
    For all Not to Disappear’s forward strides, something remains of the debut’s pallor, and with it a niggling suspicion that, despite their commercial inferiority to the xx, Florence and the Machine, and even Foals, Daughter have no spicy condiments for those groups’ bread and butter.
  21. Mojo
    Jan 12, 2016
    60
    Though arriving with less of cacophonous attack, their crush of distortion and Elena Tonra's swooning vocals is rooted in the same psychedelic heartland. [Feb 2016, p.91]
  22. 50
    Not To Disappear is an intermittently pretty affair with painfully little substance, an album that spends so much time wallowing in its own self-indulgent loneliness that it fails to offer up anything listeners can actually relate to.
  23. Feb 11, 2016
    50
    Daughter seem trapped within the confines of their influences.
  24. Jan 15, 2016
    50
    The band's stylized, minimal instrumentation can highlight the monotony of Tonra's gorgeous, but largely static, vocal phrasing, as on "Mothers," where she reflects glumly on dime-a-dozen signifiers like the feeling "when your face becomes a stranger's" and unspecified "chemical reactions."
  25. Jan 14, 2016
    40
    Apart from the excellent No Care, a track almost Mogwai-like in its fidgety ferocity, Not to Disappear sounds like an expansive cave filled with the echo of its own emotion.
  26. Feb 1, 2016
    30
    Every aspect of the album sounds like the full-length equivalent of a Spotify Chill Out playlist: flat, disposable, inoffensive (though “technically-sound”) 2010s muzak.
User Score
7.9

Generally favorable reviews- based on 61 Ratings

User score distribution:
  1. Positive: 49 out of 61
  2. Negative: 2 out of 61
  1. Jan 16, 2016
    10
    well this was fantastic ! This record is something this band always had to be. when I listened to If You Leave the record was fine but hadwell this was fantastic ! This record is something this band always had to be. when I listened to If You Leave the record was fine but had some weird moments is it and was not catchy enough. so I said they need to work harder cause there is "something" in them that sometimes show itself but ain't enough. like a hook or something. and now it's here ! this record is catchy and deep at the same time. the vocals are more flexible and the instrumental parts are much better developed. lyrics : amazing ! while it never gets too emotional it goes on to be touching and flowing. overall : it's a fascinating album by a band that just got their identity. Full Review »
  2. Oct 21, 2016
    9
    Este álbum marca un cambio tanto lírico como melódico para la banda,, ahora los vemos más agridulces explorando nuevas facetas musicales,Este álbum marca un cambio tanto lírico como melódico para la banda,, ahora los vemos más agridulces explorando nuevas facetas musicales, innovando en sus letras y cambiando el juego que estaban llevando, gran álbum. Full Review »
  3. Jan 16, 2016
    6
    Where Daughter succeeds most on Not to Disappear is in creating a hazy, dreamy atmosphere with well-produced, otherworldly instrumentation.Where Daughter succeeds most on Not to Disappear is in creating a hazy, dreamy atmosphere with well-produced, otherworldly instrumentation. The guitars pierce through the noise like light through thick fog. Frontwoman Elena Tonra's vocals are another highlight, supplementing the whimsical instrumentation with a subtle beauty. Though the sound has been well crafted, my biggest issue with Not to Disappear is the songwriting. Apart from a few tracks, namely How and No Care, I felt the songs here were lacking in melody. There are not enough dynamics to keep this intriguing sound interesting throughout the album's runtime. For this reason, Not to Disappear is going to be a difficult record for me to return to.

    64/100
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